Parties negotiate on the closeness among them by having discussing and managing the struggle between candor and discretion. There is also negotiation among them on the topic especially among couples that how much should be shared with the third party i.e. there should are certain topics which they can share among themselves but then they need to decide whether it can shared with the third party. The involvement of third party is the topic of negotiation among the couples. It is very important to be clear on this point as there are certain topics which are comfortably can be discussed among the couples but ne or the other party do not want to discuss the same topic to the third party. So a proper negotiation and discussion should be done to get an actual answer to this contradiction (Adame, 2011).